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I need help with police or court

Dealing with police or courts is daunting even without everything else you're carrying. This page points you to what should happen, your rights, and what to do when the system lets you down.

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General information only. This does not replace advice from a solicitor or specialist domestic abuse service about your own situation. The law and court procedures differ between England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland, and they change.

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What this can involve

  • Reporting to the police, or deciding whether to.
  • Being interviewed, giving a statement, or being asked for evidence.
  • Court cases, criminal, family, or both at once.
  • Protection orders, bail conditions, and what happens when they're broken.
  • Feeling not believed, or that nothing is happening.

Safety first

  • You can ask for an advocate to be with you at almost every stage, you rarely have to do any of this alone.
  • If a case is dropped or no further action is taken, that is not a statement that the abuse didn't happen. It's a decision about evidence, not about you.
  • Keep your own copies of reference numbers, names and dates, somewhere safe.

Three steps you could take

In any order, over any timescale. One is enough.

  1. Know what the police must do

    They must take a report, assess your safety, and explain what happens next. Our guide lists your rights in plain English.

  2. Get an advocate before big steps

    An IDVA can come to interviews and court, chase updates, and complain with you if you're let down. Free, through local services.

  3. Use the blank letters

    Ready-made letters for chasing the police, complaining, or asking for a review, fill in the blanks and send.

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